this is my favorite one F
这是我最喜欢的一个 F
you remember she just had a bath and uh
你还记得她刚洗完澡然后
she just
她
so giggly and
咯咯地笑着很
happy it's so
开心这很
natural the life I had that's gone it's
自然我曾经拥有的生活已经消失了一切都
finished supp it was our life she's our
结束了这是我们的生活她是我们的
world our
世界我们的
everything
一切
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[音乐]
sorry I can't do
对不起我不能 现在你不再做
[音乐] 了吗
anymore now are you niat Yasmin Javed
Yasmin Javed
more commonly known as Yasmin ja yes and
更广为人知的名字是 Yasmin ja 是的，
did you have a daughter
你有一个女儿吗
F yes that's right
F 是的，没错，是
yeah were you close to your daughter
的，你和你女儿
very close she was an only
很亲近吗 她是
child what was her occupation she was a
独生女 她的职业是什么 她是一名
solicitor employment law employment
律师 劳动法 劳动
law did she form a relationship with a
法 她是否与一个
man called Kashif anir that's right yes
叫 Kashif anir 的男人建立了关系 是啊 是
and do you recognize him yeah just point
的 你认识他吗 是的
to him please there you've pointed to
请指着他 你指着
the man in the do between the two
两名保安人员之间的那个男人
security
officers
so this is her room yeah yeah
所以这个 是她的房间，是的，
yeah and have you changed much
是的，你改变了很多吗？
no I remember it was Ramadan and she'd
不，我记得那是斋月，她
come back home to stay with
回家和我们住在一起，
us she was upstairs in her room and I
她在楼上的房间里，我
could hear his voice on that phone call
能听到他在电话里的声音，
and I was just beside
我 就在
myself I'm going to play a recording
我身边 我要播放一段录音，
which is Crown label 8 which are calls
是 Crown label 8，是 2021 年
recorded on the 30th of April
4 月 30 日录制的电话，
2021 do I not have a say in how I want
我对
my life with you oh you can't with what
和你在一起的生活没有发言权吗，你不能
with what you're mared yeah but can I
和你结婚 是的，但我
not have a say can I not have an opinion
不能说话吗？我不能发表意见吗？
you're being a when told you your
你是个婊子，当我告诉你的时候，你的
husband told you come back tomorrow why
丈夫告诉你明天回来，
the are you not listening look at
你他妈的为什么不听，看看
how you're speaking to me how are you
你是怎么跟我说话的，你怎么
going piss you are you been told toct
样了 生气你你被告知 toct
how are you cash cash I'm saying that
你怎么样现金现金我说
you can't accept that you have a problem
你不能接受你有问题
and that you need to change I will
而且你需要改变我会
genuinely P out next time said that I
真诚地 P 下次说我
need help you got that stop cashh listen
需要帮助你得到停止现金
listen listen I'm telling you your
听着听着我告诉你你
husband you're coming back tomorrow get
老公你明天就回来
yourself back here tomorrow like I've
明天就回来就像我
said stop challenging me cuz you're not
说的别再挑战我了因为你不会
going to get anywhere in life is
在生活中取得任何成就
challenged me especially with this
尤其是这件事
you're not you know who do you think you
你不会 你知道你以为你是谁
are you're not a man St behaving like a
你不是一个男人，表现得像一个
woman do not be that British woman I'm
女人，不要成为那个英国女人，我是
telling you now it's not going to work
现在告诉你这行不通
you're coming back tomorrow cuz you were
你明天就回来因为你被
told
告知
her how you're a horrible person if you
你是一个多么可怕的人如果你
love someone you don't treat them the
爱一个人你就不会用你的方式对待他们
way that you do you don't make them feel
你不会让他们有
the way that you make me feel two of you
这样的感觉 你让我感觉到你们两个和
f with me I was very dominant and I
我在一起的时候我很占主导地位，我
changed one in a bit like the you
换了一个有点像他妈的你
decided to ruin my life you've
决定毁了我的生活你
ruined my life I'll tell you one thing
毁了我的生活我会告诉你一件事
I'll tell you one thing I tell you you
我会告诉你 有一件事我告诉你，如果你
wi this and I will ruin yours yeah
这样做，我会毁了你的，是的，
you've already said that to me so many
你已经对我说过很多
times you I mean
次了，我的意思是
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it her mother she know they were happy
是她的母亲，她知道他们很开心，
but she were involved in the things I
但她参与了 我
never involved because I never seen
从来没有参与过的事情，因为我从来没有见过
anything they were very happy very very
他们非常幸福，非常非常
happy couple every family is up and down
幸福的一对，每个家庭都是起起伏伏，
they do talk aloud my son talks aloud
他们确实大声说话，我的儿子大声说话，
they she talks aloud they all say they
他们她大声说话，他们都说他们
walk very happy and she was with Kashif
走路很开心，她和卡什夫在一起，
if she wasn't happy and she was ending
如果她 不开心，她要结束
the relationship why did she came to
这段关系，为什么她来
Scotland when she fell with me and wife
苏格兰，当她和我坠入爱河，妻子
cried L she was our daughter not their
哭了 她是我们的女儿，不是他们的
daughter we believe when a girl comes to
女儿，我们相信当一个女孩来到
your family she's your daughter my
你家时，她就是你的女儿，我的
daughter are married
女儿结婚了，
when K going engage she says kha I want
当 K 订婚时，她说 kha 我想要
a diamond ring you know how much that
一枚钻戒，你知道那花
cost me
了我多少钱
6,300 I going B here from police she was
6,300 我去警察局找 B 她 是
our daughter we still think that the
我们的女儿，我们仍然认为
family is thinking wrong but I'm not
家人的想法是错误的，但我没有
thinking wrong I said I nothing else to
想错，我说我没有别的
say I'm a
话要说，我是一个
friend the plan was that they were
朋友，计划是他们
coming back on the Saturday which was
在星期六回来，那天是她
for's birthday day and she was going to
的生日 她原本想
say to him I'm going to go home cuz my
对他说，我要回家，因为我
mom's got some presents for me and then
妈妈给我买了些礼物，然后
she wasn't going to go
她就不打算
back that was the plan was was going to
回去了，计划是
come home and we were going to celebrate
回家，然后我们一起庆祝
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together that day I had spoken to her
那天下午 2 点左右我和她聊天，
about 2:00 in the afternoon just ask how
只是问
she was doing and just saying
她过得怎么样，她说
fine that evening I sent text
很好，那天晚上我发了
messages and what we're going to go for
短信，说我们要去
a short
walk because she was pregnant thought Oh
散步，因为她怀孕了 哦，
short walk that's probably near the
步行一小段距离，可能就在
hotel near the shops later on that
酒店附近，靠近商店，那天
evening I sent her a message asking her
晚上晚些时候，我给她发了一条信息，问她
how's your
你的散步怎么样
walk and she didn't
，她没有
answer
回答
I got worried but then I thought well
我很担心，但后来我想，
she's pregnant she's probably really
她怀孕了，她可能真的
tired and she's probably gone to
很累，她可能
sleep and I thought well as soon as I
睡着了，我想，我
wake up in the morning I'll ring
早上一醒来就会给
her the next day at 5:00 in the morning
她打电话 第二天早上 5 点，有人
there was a knock on the
敲门
door
for